My sweet sister-in-law, Bridget Schnautz, is a recent survivor of lymphoma. She has learned some lessons that will be helpful to us, regardless if we have or ever will have cancer. Her insight can help us take a glimpse and make adjustments now, before having to go through a life changing event!
Cancer Survivor 101
What I’ve Learned
By Bridget Schnautz
Thursday, November 27, 2008
I’ve learned:
~that a bunch of people genuinely love me and care for me; even when I’m bankrupt of anything to give in return.
~not to take the freshness of a new season for granted or any of the splendor of God’s creation.
~I’ve had a control problem that I’ve spent years calling other things. Like being organized, getting things done, leadership and at the root of the problem have been trust issues.
~that it’s OK to rest even when you have a lot to do.
~that being too busy stunts your spiritual growth.
~how to accept kindnesses graciously.
~what the power of the prayers of many can do.
~that dependency in the right context is a strength, not a weakness.
~that we are closest to God when we surrender our deepest fears to him.
~that God is not only with us in the present but is ahead of us as well.
~to take greater joy in little things.
~that bad things don’t just happen to other people.
~that optimism brings a lot of emotional sunshine to rainy days.
~I see the world more clearly.
~I feel with greater intensity.
~There is an enrichment in life simply by the awareness of its preciousness.
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